"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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protienpowder

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I went on my first date today. Our conversation didn't seem to intimate or sexual. It was mostly about our majors in college, what we wanna do with em, extra cirricular activities, ect. I did't feel like I got to know her on a intimate or sexual level, so I didn't go for the kiss.

I don't know how to take it to the next step. I've never had a girlfriend before, so I have no idea how it works. I've read the conversation material in the dj bible, and I can make good conversation with her. But I don't know how to know how to set a sensual/romantic vibe.

Should I just have tried for a kiss anyway?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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protienpowder

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Lucas718 said:
Did you touch her at all? You have to do the kino, man.
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
 

DJ_in_making

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protienpowder said:
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
yea, that's exactly what it was. And start to show interest too, chicks know guys like them but for some reason want you to make a move. Good job w/ the rapport but just don't get LJBFed.
 

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kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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protienpowder

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specialed said:
kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
for sure, its my new priority
 

Nexxus

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yeah kino;
also talkin about school is kinda bad and boring for a relationship... when you meet her, kiss her on da cheek or hug her, then when you're on ya date tease her, grab her, flirt with her, escalate and kiss

and don't forget to dominate, a girl might be attarcted to you but still will never (or nearly never) make the first move (unless they're extremely extremely horny and aren't scared to show it)
 
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