"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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protienpowder

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I went on my first date today. Our conversation didn't seem to intimate or sexual. It was mostly about our majors in college, what we wanna do with em, extra cirricular activities, ect. I did't feel like I got to know her on a intimate or sexual level, so I didn't go for the kiss.

I don't know how to take it to the next step. I've never had a girlfriend before, so I have no idea how it works. I've read the conversation material in the dj bible, and I can make good conversation with her. But I don't know how to know how to set a sensual/romantic vibe.

Should I just have tried for a kiss anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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protienpowder

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Lucas718 said:
Did you touch her at all? You have to do the kino, man.
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
 

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protienpowder said:
No. . . .dang, im sure that was it.
yea, that's exactly what it was. And start to show interest too, chicks know guys like them but for some reason want you to make a move. Good job w/ the rapport but just don't get LJBFed.
 

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kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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specialed said:
kino kino kino...you have NO idea how powerful kino is until you do it...and next time try an SOI :cool:
for sure, its my new priority
 

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yeah kino;
also talkin about school is kinda bad and boring for a relationship... when you meet her, kiss her on da cheek or hug her, then when you're on ya date tease her, grab her, flirt with her, escalate and kiss

and don't forget to dominate, a girl might be attarcted to you but still will never (or nearly never) make the first move (unless they're extremely extremely horny and aren't scared to show it)
 
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