"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Data reveals average number of sexual partners a person has had in their life...

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The average American has had 7.2 sexual partners in their life...

Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

Guess I'm really, really promisuous...

https://www.yahoo.com/style/data-reveals-number-sexual-partners-235003757.html
In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.
 

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There u go the average member here should be much more happy with their notch count now
 

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In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.

Merely commenting on an article I came across. I have no time to worry about that...I spend my life trying to write the perfect line of code.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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.2 counts for the hands. You do the math
 

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Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

I read those numbers at first as 152 and 14. I was thinking, hmmmm, ten times the number of partners for a woman on average....that sounds about right.
 

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When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
Yeah, I figured women will count down but it will balance out because men will count up...a dude who has banged 5 chicks will say 10 or 12
 
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