"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Data reveals average number of sexual partners a person has had in their life...

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75 said:
The average American has had 7.2 sexual partners in their life...

Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

Guess I'm really, really promisuous...

https://www.yahoo.com/style/data-reveals-number-sexual-partners-235003757.html
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In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.
 
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There u go the average member here should be much more happy with their notch count now
 
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Leisuresuitlegend said:
In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.
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Merely commenting on an article I came across. I have no time to worry about that...I spend my life trying to write the perfect line of code.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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.2 counts for the hands. You do the math
 
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Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

I read those numbers at first as 152 and 14. I was thinking, hmmmm, ten times the number of partners for a woman on average....that sounds about right.
 
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When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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logicallefty said:
When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
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Yeah, I figured women will count down but it will balance out because men will count up...a dude who has banged 5 chicks will say 10 or 12
 
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