"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Data reveals average number of sexual partners a person has had in their life...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75 said:
The average American has had 7.2 sexual partners in their life...

Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

Guess I'm really, really promisuous...

https://www.yahoo.com/style/data-reveals-number-sexual-partners-235003757.html
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In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.
 
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There u go the average member here should be much more happy with their notch count now
 
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Leisuresuitlegend said:
In the end what does it matter in the grand scheme of life?

getting laid x number of times or experiencing a multitude of different things?

if you spend your life worried about your number of conquests and to keep going you're missing out on so much more.
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Merely commenting on an article I came across. I have no time to worry about that...I spend my life trying to write the perfect line of code.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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.2 counts for the hands. You do the math
 
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Someone was considered "too promiscuous" if they have had more than 15.2 partners according to women or 14 according to men.

I read those numbers at first as 152 and 14. I was thinking, hmmmm, ten times the number of partners for a woman on average....that sounds about right.
 
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When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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logicallefty said:
When looking at this data; Remember tho, with women, they only count the ones they actually enjoyed. So if a woman says 7.2 partners her real count is 72. Their illogical organ in their head they call a brain can somehow null the ones they didn't like from the count. And On top of that, the top few they REALLY didn't like they will call "rape"
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Yeah, I figured women will count down but it will balance out because men will count up...a dude who has banged 5 chicks will say 10 or 12
 
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