"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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obti

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Any links or tips on how to be a better dancer? I'm looking for the kind of dancing you do in clubs, grinding, general dancing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tsmith2334

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if you have a close friend who is a girl and likes to dance, ask her to dance with you and give you pointers

i did that before proms a couple years ago
 

kdnash82

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I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.

People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
 

Paintballguy

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kdnash82 said:
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.

People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
yea exactly... If your dancing at a club with chicks, all you need is to know how to 2 step. Its so easy, its not even funny...

Just go up to a chick, box them out and start dancing. The important thing is to feel the beat and move the same as the beat. Obviously, if its a fast song you dont want to be moving slow and vice versa. Its also important to switch it up and move her hips different ways.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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go on youtube and search for cwalking. That is a pretty cool dance moves and it's easy to learn.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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kdnash82 said:
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all. ..
:yes: Yep.

But it doesn't hurt if you can throw down with the best of 'em... :up:
 
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