obti
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Any links or tips on how to be a better dancer? I'm looking for the kind of dancing you do in clubs, grinding, general dancing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
if you have a close friend who is a girl and likes to dance, ask her to dance with you and give you pointers
i did that before proms a couple years ago
i did that before proms a couple years ago
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kdnash82
Master Don Juan
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.
People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
yea exactly... If your dancing at a club with chicks, all you need is to know how to 2 step. Its so easy, its not even funny...kdnash82 said:
Just go up to a chick, box them out and start dancing. The important thing is to feel the beat and move the same as the beat. Obviously, if its a fast song you dont want to be moving slow and vice versa. Its also important to switch it up and move her hips different ways.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Docs said:
quoted for awesomeness. :rockon:
Francisco d'Anconia
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:yes: Yep.kdnash82 said:
But it doesn't hurt if you can throw down with the best of 'em...
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Don't rely on cwalking, you'll look like an idiot.Hero said:
And you might get shot.