obti
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Any links or tips on how to be a better dancer? I'm looking for the kind of dancing you do in clubs, grinding, general dancing.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
if you have a close friend who is a girl and likes to dance, ask her to dance with you and give you pointers
i did that before proms a couple years ago
i did that before proms a couple years ago
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kdnash82
Master Don Juan
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.
People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
yea exactly... If your dancing at a club with chicks, all you need is to know how to 2 step. Its so easy, its not even funny...kdnash82 said:
Just go up to a chick, box them out and start dancing. The important thing is to feel the beat and move the same as the beat. Obviously, if its a fast song you dont want to be moving slow and vice versa. Its also important to switch it up and move her hips different ways.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Docs said:
quoted for awesomeness. :rockon:
Francisco d'Anconia
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:yes: Yep.kdnash82 said:
But it doesn't hurt if you can throw down with the best of 'em...
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Don't rely on cwalking, you'll look like an idiot.Hero said:
And you might get shot.