"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any links or tips on how to be a better dancer? I'm looking for the kind of dancing you do in clubs, grinding, general dancing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tsmith2334

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if you have a close friend who is a girl and likes to dance, ask her to dance with you and give you pointers

i did that before proms a couple years ago
 

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I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.

People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
 

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kdnash82 said:
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all.

People make dancing out to be some mystery, but as far as hip-hop/r&b music goes, you really just have to two step.
yea exactly... If your dancing at a club with chicks, all you need is to know how to 2 step. Its so easy, its not even funny...

Just go up to a chick, box them out and start dancing. The important thing is to feel the beat and move the same as the beat. Obviously, if its a fast song you dont want to be moving slow and vice versa. Its also important to switch it up and move her hips different ways.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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go on youtube and search for cwalking. That is a pretty cool dance moves and it's easy to learn.
 

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kdnash82 said:
I feel like you can never go wrong with the two step. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, watch the movie "Hitch" explains it all. ..
:yes: Yep.

But it doesn't hurt if you can throw down with the best of 'em... :up:
 
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