"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dancing (Salsa, etc.)

GamePlan

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So how much of a turn on is a man who can dance to women really? Do they just rave about it or is it really a big sexual turn on for them? I mean as in salsa and that kind of stuff (which would probably be an easy activity to meet women in the first place) - I know a woman who can dance is a big turn on for me ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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everywomanshero

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I think dancing is one possible way to meet women and another way to spend some time with them. However, I don't think anyone would want to be known as disco inferno.... the guy that allways talks about dancing and tries real hard to impress women with how much of a dancer he is.
 

Lexington

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It's definitely a big turn on. I'm not sure about that whole grinding thing, but chicks LOVE dudes that can dance the tango, waltz, swing, salsa etc.

I was at a party a theme party a few weeks ago. They were playing a lot of tango at the beginning. I had a friend teach me the moves before the party. Well, sure enough, chicks were just lining up to dance. I was dancing with one girl and another girl would come up and tell her that it was her turn.

But yeah you don't want to appear so into dancing as to appear gay. It should be another one of the little tricks you have in your repetoire. I think it's most interesting when you spring it on her unexpectedly.
 

Serg897

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One of the things I do at school is Ballroom Dancing. Im on the team, I go to competitions...etc.

I'll tell you it definately helps raise the interest level of some girls, although its not automatic and it wont guarantee you success.

It is a great way to MEET women, however. Asking a girl to dance at a Salsa club/event is one of the EASIEST ways I know to meet them. And Salsa is probably one of my favorite dances ever.

However, I don't think anyone would want to be known as disco inferno.... the guy that allways talks about dancing and tries real hard to impress women with how much of a dancer he is.
This is also true. Dont be THAT guy.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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It's huge. It's one of the major ways that women see confidence in a guy. You don't even have to be great at it, just comfortable with yourself when your on the dancefloor. If you are good you can take charge by leading your partner on the dancefloor. Knowing how to dance isn't a detriment unless you're just an @ss who's showing off for your own benefit.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Viking25

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As a guy who's been dancing for many years I can tell you this: They will dance with you..but they will come back to bed with their bf who can't dance and fcuk him!..
Dancing is a good way to meet them, but not a huge advantage. I don't know one guy who gets laid because of dancing and I am around them a lot.
 

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Being great at dancing is like being good looking. It gives you more auditions but you'll still have to have other parts of your game sorted out if you want more.
 
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