thexfactor
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alright, when you're dancing, is it always appropriate to allow the girl to feel your hard-on? or should you resist so she won't think you're a straighup perv?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by thexfactor
dancing boners
HaHaHaHaOriginally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by Avon
Saw the Dancing Boners live once, they rocked.
first, i hadn't even thought of it like that when i wrote the name of the thread, that's freaking hilarious, heheheheOriginally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I actually saw a painting in the Detroit inst of arts...one which shows " A wedding dance" and guess what everyone of the guys there were shoen with boners..Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
Yes. A bad feeling, yet a good one at the same time....:yes:Originally posted by The_Shezzler
:crackup: u gotta get a hard on - just fcuking kills when they rub up and then down right across your bell-end with their jeans against your jeans
Ouchees - but still awesome hehe
Sarge on..
Try just a traditional club, that plays cheesy pop music.Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
-oh and btw, when yall go to clubs are alot of other people out there grinding? sometimes i go to theese drum and bass clubs(im sure you uk'ers are familiar) and there is never much grinding goin on. You kinda have to be the first person to initiate it on the dance floor, and you end up lookin like a perv. How are trance/house/top 40 clubs when it comes to pervy dancing?
Yea, drum & bass nights are alot like rock concerts or something. people aren't reall there to pull, rather take drugs/dance and have a good time.Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
If the girl has no ass, i cant get a hard on. One time at a club i went up to this real thin chick, like a 8 face. I grabbed her hips and started dancing. I had to like force hard on, eventually when the semi hard on came, im sure she could feel it, but at the same time i was running the back of my palm down her arm, and she said"calm down!" not sure if it was the boner or if it was me rubbing her.
-oh and btw, when yall go to clubs are alot of other people out there grinding? sometimes i go to theese drum and bass clubs(im sure you uk'ers are familiar) and there is never much grinding goin on. You kinda have to be the first person to initiate it on the dance floor, and you end up lookin like a perv. How are trance/house/top 40 clubs when it comes to pervy dancing?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.