thexfactor
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alright, when you're dancing, is it always appropriate to allow the girl to feel your hard-on? or should you resist so she won't think you're a straighup perv?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by thexfactor
dancing boners
HaHaHaHaOriginally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by Avon
Saw the Dancing Boners live once, they rocked.
first, i hadn't even thought of it like that when i wrote the name of the thread, that's freaking hilarious, heheheheOriginally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I actually saw a painting in the Detroit inst of arts...one which shows " A wedding dance" and guess what everyone of the guys there were shoen with boners..Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
Is it just me, or does anyone else find this hilarious. The images it conjures are just indescribable.
Yes. A bad feeling, yet a good one at the same time....:yes:Originally posted by The_Shezzler
:crackup: u gotta get a hard on - just fcuking kills when they rub up and then down right across your bell-end with their jeans against your jeans
Ouchees - but still awesome hehe
Sarge on..
Try just a traditional club, that plays cheesy pop music.Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
-oh and btw, when yall go to clubs are alot of other people out there grinding? sometimes i go to theese drum and bass clubs(im sure you uk'ers are familiar) and there is never much grinding goin on. You kinda have to be the first person to initiate it on the dance floor, and you end up lookin like a perv. How are trance/house/top 40 clubs when it comes to pervy dancing?
Yea, drum & bass nights are alot like rock concerts or something. people aren't reall there to pull, rather take drugs/dance and have a good time.Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
If the girl has no ass, i cant get a hard on. One time at a club i went up to this real thin chick, like a 8 face. I grabbed her hips and started dancing. I had to like force hard on, eventually when the semi hard on came, im sure she could feel it, but at the same time i was running the back of my palm down her arm, and she said"calm down!" not sure if it was the boner or if it was me rubbing her.
-oh and btw, when yall go to clubs are alot of other people out there grinding? sometimes i go to theese drum and bass clubs(im sure you uk'ers are familiar) and there is never much grinding goin on. You kinda have to be the first person to initiate it on the dance floor, and you end up lookin like a perv. How are trance/house/top 40 clubs when it comes to pervy dancing?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.