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Don Juan
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So with prom coming up, I'm a little worried. I don't really know how to dance........... What can I do?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
he asked about dancing lol, I assumed he could/can grind, seeing how its the most common thing that goes on. I was more answering for those times when he might actually need to pop a nice move, or something.eaglez1177 said:Dude all you gotta know how to do is just grind. Thats the only thing that goes on at any highschool dance or prom. You dont need to watch hitch or learn a bunch of fancy moves, cuz then your just puttin urself at risk to be embarassed in front of a bunch of ppl.
Just go on google or watch youtube videos on how to grind, its really easy to learn. Then, just kinda practice the motions in your room like your grinding up against a girls ass. Its pretty much just moving your hips in like a circle motion and/or moving with the rhythm of the girl's ass.
IMPORTANT NOTE: DO NOT feel discouraged, embarassed, weird, or anything if you pop a boner when you grind with a girl. This is completely normal, and happens to all of us. Just keep on moving with her and stick your boner right in her ass, trust me, shes gonna like it cuz she knows shes doin a good job. DO NOT start to move your d*ck away from her ass or move back from her or anything of the sort. Just keep on dancing and enjoy yourself.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's pretty much it. I can speak from experience as this latter part happened to me over Christmas. I was scared sh*tless at first but I figured what the hell and didn't pull away. It turned out alright, so yeah, do that.eaglez1177 said:Dude all you gotta know how to do is just grind. Thats the only thing that goes on at any highschool dance or prom. You dont need to watch hitch or learn a bunch of fancy moves, cuz then your just puttin urself at risk to be embarassed in front of a bunch of ppl.
Just go on google or watch youtube videos on how to grind, its really easy to learn. Then, just kinda practice the motions in your room like your grinding up against a girls ass. Its pretty much just moving your hips in like a circle motion and/or moving with the rhythm of the girl's ass.
IMPORTANT NOTE: DO NOT feel discouraged, embarassed, weird, or anything if you pop a boner when you grind with a girl. This is completely normal, and happens to all of us. Just keep on moving with her and stick your boner right in her ass, trust me, shes gonna like it cuz she knows shes doin a good job. DO NOT start to move your d*ck away from her ass or move back from her or anything of the sort. Just keep on dancing and enjoy yourself.