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Don Juan
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So with prom coming up, I'm a little worried. I don't really know how to dance........... What can I do?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
he asked about dancing lol, I assumed he could/can grind, seeing how its the most common thing that goes on. I was more answering for those times when he might actually need to pop a nice move, or something.eaglez1177 said:Dude all you gotta know how to do is just grind. Thats the only thing that goes on at any highschool dance or prom. You dont need to watch hitch or learn a bunch of fancy moves, cuz then your just puttin urself at risk to be embarassed in front of a bunch of ppl.
Just go on google or watch youtube videos on how to grind, its really easy to learn. Then, just kinda practice the motions in your room like your grinding up against a girls ass. Its pretty much just moving your hips in like a circle motion and/or moving with the rhythm of the girl's ass.
IMPORTANT NOTE: DO NOT feel discouraged, embarassed, weird, or anything if you pop a boner when you grind with a girl. This is completely normal, and happens to all of us. Just keep on moving with her and stick your boner right in her ass, trust me, shes gonna like it cuz she knows shes doin a good job. DO NOT start to move your d*ck away from her ass or move back from her or anything of the sort. Just keep on dancing and enjoy yourself.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's pretty much it. I can speak from experience as this latter part happened to me over Christmas. I was scared sh*tless at first but I figured what the hell and didn't pull away. It turned out alright, so yeah, do that.eaglez1177 said:Dude all you gotta know how to do is just grind. Thats the only thing that goes on at any highschool dance or prom. You dont need to watch hitch or learn a bunch of fancy moves, cuz then your just puttin urself at risk to be embarassed in front of a bunch of ppl.
Just go on google or watch youtube videos on how to grind, its really easy to learn. Then, just kinda practice the motions in your room like your grinding up against a girls ass. Its pretty much just moving your hips in like a circle motion and/or moving with the rhythm of the girl's ass.
IMPORTANT NOTE: DO NOT feel discouraged, embarassed, weird, or anything if you pop a boner when you grind with a girl. This is completely normal, and happens to all of us. Just keep on moving with her and stick your boner right in her ass, trust me, shes gonna like it cuz she knows shes doin a good job. DO NOT start to move your d*ck away from her ass or move back from her or anything of the sort. Just keep on dancing and enjoy yourself.