So i'm throwing a big dance party at my place, cause my friend thinks my place is a nice party house, and he's inviting so many HBs it's pretty crazy. We're setting it up he's staying the night at my house, and we're just gonna chill, but the problem is i can't even dance. These HBs freak dance and grind, and stuff. What am i suppose to do with that? HELP!
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DanceParty at my place, but i cant dance.......
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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ah this is exelent!!!
what you do is use this as an advantage.
tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"
this would be so funny and women would feel sory for you - just play it cool - you are the party organiser.
think old school - great film - the guy is made a legend cause of what he doesnt do rather than what he does do!!
hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
what you do is use this as an advantage.
tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"
this would be so funny and women would feel sory for you - just play it cool - you are the party organiser.
think old school - great film - the guy is made a legend cause of what he doesnt do rather than what he does do!!
hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
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As a rule, try to be low-key. Don't feel you have to pull off as these crazy flashy moves. Unless you're a trained dancer, odds are you'll look spazzy. There's nothing wrong with dancing a bit generically.
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Here you go bro: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gd3p0K8KCLI
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Have you ever thrown a party?
I'd say you haven't.
When you are the host you are the MAN. You will hear your name called every five seconds, "rint where can I put my bag?" "rint, can I put the beer in the fridge?" "rint, do you have scissors?" "rint, where is the closest shop?" "rint rint rint." That's all you'll hear all night.
Make sure your music is quality.
If you don't already have some cool art or features get em.
Make your bedroom the "private function" room where the elite of the party hang.
Don't worry about dancing. Be the host. Cruise your pad and make sure every person is having fun.
You can be the MAN without dancing.
JJ
EDIT: Sorry, just realised you are 15...
I'd say you haven't.
When you are the host you are the MAN. You will hear your name called every five seconds, "rint where can I put my bag?" "rint, can I put the beer in the fridge?" "rint, do you have scissors?" "rint, where is the closest shop?" "rint rint rint." That's all you'll hear all night.
Make sure your music is quality.
If you don't already have some cool art or features get em.
Make your bedroom the "private function" room where the elite of the party hang.
Don't worry about dancing. Be the host. Cruise your pad and make sure every person is having fun.
You can be the MAN without dancing.
JJ
EDIT: Sorry, just realised you are 15...
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Bend the hors over and treat them like the hors that they are!!!! I don't comprehend your dilemma!!!!! This has nothing to do with dancing!!
Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
that's really true. Modern dancing doesn't involve much skill -- unless you want to get really fancy. But getting fancy isn't necessary to participate. Just get into it and don't be afraid to look a little silly. (if you do something that other people start to laugh at, just smile to acknowledge that you know you're not the best)
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.