So i'm throwing a big dance party at my place, cause my friend thinks my place is a nice party house, and he's inviting so many HBs it's pretty crazy. We're setting it up he's staying the night at my house, and we're just gonna chill, but the problem is i can't even dance. These HBs freak dance and grind, and stuff. What am i suppose to do with that? HELP!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DanceParty at my place, but i cant dance.......
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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ah this is exelent!!!
what you do is use this as an advantage.
tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"
this would be so funny and women would feel sory for you - just play it cool - you are the party organiser.
think old school - great film - the guy is made a legend cause of what he doesnt do rather than what he does do!!
hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
what you do is use this as an advantage.
tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"
this would be so funny and women would feel sory for you - just play it cool - you are the party organiser.
think old school - great film - the guy is made a legend cause of what he doesnt do rather than what he does do!!
hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
SucceedSocially
Don Juan
As a rule, try to be low-key. Don't feel you have to pull off as these crazy flashy moves. Unless you're a trained dancer, odds are you'll look spazzy. There's nothing wrong with dancing a bit generically.
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Here you go bro: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gd3p0K8KCLI
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Have you ever thrown a party?
I'd say you haven't.
When you are the host you are the MAN. You will hear your name called every five seconds, "rint where can I put my bag?" "rint, can I put the beer in the fridge?" "rint, do you have scissors?" "rint, where is the closest shop?" "rint rint rint." That's all you'll hear all night.
Make sure your music is quality.
If you don't already have some cool art or features get em.
Make your bedroom the "private function" room where the elite of the party hang.
Don't worry about dancing. Be the host. Cruise your pad and make sure every person is having fun.
You can be the MAN without dancing.
JJ
EDIT: Sorry, just realised you are 15...
I'd say you haven't.
When you are the host you are the MAN. You will hear your name called every five seconds, "rint where can I put my bag?" "rint, can I put the beer in the fridge?" "rint, do you have scissors?" "rint, where is the closest shop?" "rint rint rint." That's all you'll hear all night.
Make sure your music is quality.
If you don't already have some cool art or features get em.
Make your bedroom the "private function" room where the elite of the party hang.
Don't worry about dancing. Be the host. Cruise your pad and make sure every person is having fun.
You can be the MAN without dancing.
JJ
EDIT: Sorry, just realised you are 15...
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Bend the hors over and treat them like the hors that they are!!!! I don't comprehend your dilemma!!!!! This has nothing to do with dancing!!
Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
that's really true. Modern dancing doesn't involve much skill -- unless you want to get really fancy. But getting fancy isn't necessary to participate. Just get into it and don't be afraid to look a little silly. (if you do something that other people start to laugh at, just smile to acknowledge that you know you're not the best)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.