"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DanceParty at my place, but i cant dance.......

Rint

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So i'm throwing a big dance party at my place, cause my friend thinks my place is a nice party house, and he's inviting so many HBs it's pretty crazy. We're setting it up he's staying the night at my house, and we're just gonna chill, but the problem is i can't even dance. These HBs freak dance and grind, and stuff. What am i suppose to do with that? HELP!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian

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it's not hard, just try it. And watch other people to learn some cool moves/movements

practice a little by yourself with a mirror first
 
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ah this is exelent!!!

what you do is use this as an advantage.

tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"

this would be so funny and women would feel sory for you - just play it cool - you are the party organiser.

think old school - great film - the guy is made a legend cause of what he doesnt do rather than what he does do!!

hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
 

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As a rule, try to be low-key. Don't feel you have to pull off as these crazy flashy moves. Unless you're a trained dancer, odds are you'll look spazzy. There's nothing wrong with dancing a bit generically.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you ever thrown a party?

I'd say you haven't.

When you are the host you are the MAN. You will hear your name called every five seconds, "rint where can I put my bag?" "rint, can I put the beer in the fridge?" "rint, do you have scissors?" "rint, where is the closest shop?" "rint rint rint." That's all you'll hear all night.

Make sure your music is quality.

If you don't already have some cool art or features get em.

Make your bedroom the "private function" room where the elite of the party hang.

Don't worry about dancing. Be the host. Cruise your pad and make sure every person is having fun.

You can be the MAN without dancing.

JJ

EDIT: Sorry, just realised you are 15...
 

Rint

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Wat should i be doing? I mean i dont know any of these girls. My place is kinda small. With a movie room and then this huge empty space that will be where we dance.
 
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Bend the hors over and treat them like the hors that they are!!!! I don't comprehend your dilemma!!!!! This has nothing to do with dancing!!

Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
 

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Phoenixpua-london said:
ah this is exelent!!!

what you do is use this as an advantage.

tell the girls, "i cant even ****ing dance and this is my dance party" lol "can you teach me??"

hope this helps, pm me if you need any more advice bro
i'd say you go with this comment! fricking awesome!!!!!!
 

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Merely keep in Rhythm with the bass - the deepest sound!!!
that's really true. Modern dancing doesn't involve much skill -- unless you want to get really fancy. But getting fancy isn't necessary to participate. Just get into it and don't be afraid to look a little silly. (if you do something that other people start to laugh at, just smile to acknowledge that you know you're not the best)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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