“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shaunuk

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That's not to say I look scruffy btw, I just don't have particularly awesome clothes
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shaunuk said:
Mazeman is saying that he doesn't really dress up and still gets hot girls. And you're saying that's not possible....Why are you saying he's an "average guy" because he doesn't dress up particularly?

I score hot girls and I pretty much never dress up. Why am I "average" as a result and why is me scoring hot girls not possible?

He's assuming I'm either "average" or ugly just because I don't need to dress up to get hot girls. In his case he probably needs to dress to impress to get hot chicks. Nothing really wrong with that if that's what it takes.
 

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First off, the Carlton Banks look is played out.

You need to stand out from the average guys.

Get a girl to dress you! They love shopping and dressing men! Your confidence and social proof will go up as well.

Remember that women take 60 minutes to dress to go to the club.

Most guys take 60 seconds to do the same thing.

You still gotta be well groomed and clean.

BTW You DO need to be trendy to get the hottest girls unless you're rich or famous.
 

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Be aware of girls with rings on their ring fingers. They'll dance with you. They'll even ask you to dance. I Can't count on my hand how many women I've danced with in the past month who were married, and left their husbands home, because, "He doesn't like to dance" or "This isn't 'his thing' (particular style of dance)." When I find out she's married, I kinda lose respect for the girl for dancing with a whole bunch of different dudes, while her husband sits at home. I'm amazed at this phenomenon of late. Did this always happen? or is this just a 21st century thing?

Girl says to me tonight, "He didn't want to dance, but a girl's gotta get her dancing in, right? (i.e. fvck him!)"
 

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Well just to update some more. I got approached tonight yet again by a girl for a grind session. I didn't make any approaches on my own though. I dress better but I no longer have the confidence to approach. I feel like the rejection is bound to occur if I try to make any moves myself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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