“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shaunuk

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That's not to say I look scruffy btw, I just don't have particularly awesome clothes
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Mazeman11

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shaunuk said:
Mazeman is saying that he doesn't really dress up and still gets hot girls. And you're saying that's not possible....Why are you saying he's an "average guy" because he doesn't dress up particularly?

I score hot girls and I pretty much never dress up. Why am I "average" as a result and why is me scoring hot girls not possible?

He's assuming I'm either "average" or ugly just because I don't need to dress up to get hot girls. In his case he probably needs to dress to impress to get hot chicks. Nothing really wrong with that if that's what it takes.
 

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First off, the Carlton Banks look is played out.

You need to stand out from the average guys.

Get a girl to dress you! They love shopping and dressing men! Your confidence and social proof will go up as well.

Remember that women take 60 minutes to dress to go to the club.

Most guys take 60 seconds to do the same thing.

You still gotta be well groomed and clean.

BTW You DO need to be trendy to get the hottest girls unless you're rich or famous.
 

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Be aware of girls with rings on their ring fingers. They'll dance with you. They'll even ask you to dance. I Can't count on my hand how many women I've danced with in the past month who were married, and left their husbands home, because, "He doesn't like to dance" or "This isn't 'his thing' (particular style of dance)." When I find out she's married, I kinda lose respect for the girl for dancing with a whole bunch of different dudes, while her husband sits at home. I'm amazed at this phenomenon of late. Did this always happen? or is this just a 21st century thing?

Girl says to me tonight, "He didn't want to dance, but a girl's gotta get her dancing in, right? (i.e. fvck him!)"
 

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Well just to update some more. I got approached tonight yet again by a girl for a grind session. I didn't make any approaches on my own though. I dress better but I no longer have the confidence to approach. I feel like the rejection is bound to occur if I try to make any moves myself.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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