Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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shaunuk

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That's not to say I look scruffy btw, I just don't have particularly awesome clothes
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mazeman11

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shaunuk said:
Mazeman is saying that he doesn't really dress up and still gets hot girls. And you're saying that's not possible....Why are you saying he's an "average guy" because he doesn't dress up particularly?

I score hot girls and I pretty much never dress up. Why am I "average" as a result and why is me scoring hot girls not possible?

He's assuming I'm either "average" or ugly just because I don't need to dress up to get hot girls. In his case he probably needs to dress to impress to get hot chicks. Nothing really wrong with that if that's what it takes.
 

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First off, the Carlton Banks look is played out.

You need to stand out from the average guys.

Get a girl to dress you! They love shopping and dressing men! Your confidence and social proof will go up as well.

Remember that women take 60 minutes to dress to go to the club.

Most guys take 60 seconds to do the same thing.

You still gotta be well groomed and clean.

BTW You DO need to be trendy to get the hottest girls unless you're rich or famous.
 

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Be aware of girls with rings on their ring fingers. They'll dance with you. They'll even ask you to dance. I Can't count on my hand how many women I've danced with in the past month who were married, and left their husbands home, because, "He doesn't like to dance" or "This isn't 'his thing' (particular style of dance)." When I find out she's married, I kinda lose respect for the girl for dancing with a whole bunch of different dudes, while her husband sits at home. I'm amazed at this phenomenon of late. Did this always happen? or is this just a 21st century thing?

Girl says to me tonight, "He didn't want to dance, but a girl's gotta get her dancing in, right? (i.e. fvck him!)"
 

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Well just to update some more. I got approached tonight yet again by a girl for a grind session. I didn't make any approaches on my own though. I dress better but I no longer have the confidence to approach. I feel like the rejection is bound to occur if I try to make any moves myself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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