Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
not even close man. just cuz she doesnt answer doesnt mean sh!t. like JJ said, there could have been a million reasons why she didnt answer. she does have a life too u know lol.Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i usually call twice. if she doesnt pick up, than i give up until i feel like calling again, which is usually another day.Pikachuthechosen said: