Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
not even close man. just cuz she doesnt answer doesnt mean sh!t. like JJ said, there could have been a million reasons why she didnt answer. she does have a life too u know lol.Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i usually call twice. if she doesnt pick up, than i give up until i feel like calling again, which is usually another day.Pikachuthechosen said: