She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
not even close man. just cuz she doesnt answer doesnt mean sh!t. like JJ said, there could have been a million reasons why she didnt answer. she does have a life too u know lol.Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i usually call twice. if she doesnt pick up, than i give up until i feel like calling again, which is usually another day.Pikachuthechosen said: