That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
not even close man. just cuz she doesnt answer doesnt mean sh!t. like JJ said, there could have been a million reasons why she didnt answer. she does have a life too u know lol.Pikachuthechosen said:Okay so I called this girl I hanged out iwth the other day. She did most the talking and we smooched and cuddled and stuff. first date. I called her 3 days later (which is today) and she didn't answer her fu cking phone. does this mean she don't like me? should I never call her again?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i usually call twice. if she doesnt pick up, than i give up until i feel like calling again, which is usually another day.Pikachuthechosen said: