"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Damn dont know what to do

silenthill

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
123
Reaction score
1
Ok there's this girl I've gone out with once, she's in one of my classes and I asked her to go to a hockey game on friday which I am going to with 3 of my friends (1 guy 2 girls).

She said yes, and even called me today to confirm, but now Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone. Ideally I would be just going with her, but Im not ditching my friends. Should I say something like "lets do something saturday instead"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Sadao

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Messages
214
Reaction score
5
Location
Anonymous
no, take her. Going with friends is good social proof, and having other girls there might even make it better with her getting jealous. Make sure not to avoid your friends, talk to them often, especially the ladies. This event can show that you are a valued friend to not just your guy friend, but a desirable man to those other chicks as well.
 

dap

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2006
Messages
275
Reaction score
7
Location
Durham Cali
Tell your friends that you will meet them at the game, and grab something to eat with your girl before hand. Or spend the afternoon with her doing something else.

Plus I agree with the above post.
 
Last edited:

Jackman

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2006
Messages
184
Reaction score
5
silenthill said:
Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone.
WTF are you talking about?! This is a money date, especially with two chicks in tow for proof. It doesn't get better than that.
 
Top