Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Damn dont know what to do

silenthill

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Ok there's this girl I've gone out with once, she's in one of my classes and I asked her to go to a hockey game on friday which I am going to with 3 of my friends (1 guy 2 girls).

She said yes, and even called me today to confirm, but now Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone. Ideally I would be just going with her, but Im not ditching my friends. Should I say something like "lets do something saturday instead"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sadao

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no, take her. Going with friends is good social proof, and having other girls there might even make it better with her getting jealous. Make sure not to avoid your friends, talk to them often, especially the ladies. This event can show that you are a valued friend to not just your guy friend, but a desirable man to those other chicks as well.
 

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Tell your friends that you will meet them at the game, and grab something to eat with your girl before hand. Or spend the afternoon with her doing something else.

Plus I agree with the above post.
 
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Jackman

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silenthill said:
Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone.
WTF are you talking about?! This is a money date, especially with two chicks in tow for proof. It doesn't get better than that.
 
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