"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn dont know what to do

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Ok there's this girl I've gone out with once, she's in one of my classes and I asked her to go to a hockey game on friday which I am going to with 3 of my friends (1 guy 2 girls).

She said yes, and even called me today to confirm, but now Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone. Ideally I would be just going with her, but Im not ditching my friends. Should I say something like "lets do something saturday instead"?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sadao

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no, take her. Going with friends is good social proof, and having other girls there might even make it better with her getting jealous. Make sure not to avoid your friends, talk to them often, especially the ladies. This event can show that you are a valued friend to not just your guy friend, but a desirable man to those other chicks as well.
 
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Tell your friends that you will meet them at the game, and grab something to eat with your girl before hand. Or spend the afternoon with her doing something else.

Plus I agree with the above post.
 
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silenthill said:
Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone.
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WTF are you talking about?! This is a money date, especially with two chicks in tow for proof. It doesn't get better than that.
 
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