“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Damn dont know what to do

silenthill

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Ok there's this girl I've gone out with once, she's in one of my classes and I asked her to go to a hockey game on friday which I am going to with 3 of my friends (1 guy 2 girls).

She said yes, and even called me today to confirm, but now Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone. Ideally I would be just going with her, but Im not ditching my friends. Should I say something like "lets do something saturday instead"?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sadao

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no, take her. Going with friends is good social proof, and having other girls there might even make it better with her getting jealous. Make sure not to avoid your friends, talk to them often, especially the ladies. This event can show that you are a valued friend to not just your guy friend, but a desirable man to those other chicks as well.
 

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Tell your friends that you will meet them at the game, and grab something to eat with your girl before hand. Or spend the afternoon with her doing something else.

Plus I agree with the above post.
 
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Jackman

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silenthill said:
Im not so sure. I'm thinking that this may get me tossed in the friends zone.
WTF are you talking about?! This is a money date, especially with two chicks in tow for proof. It doesn't get better than that.
 
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