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I don't understand why the advice isn't just evactuate.If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't understand why the advice isn't just evactuate.If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I don't understand why the advice isn't just evactuate.
Im in this situation right now, check my last post. I need to run lol. Working on it
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I know deep downMate they are usualy very hot woman, and give you the best sex ever..
However eventually you will get fuked over.
Especialy if you catch FEELS for her...
Give yourself a time line to exit.. Smash her, get as much sex mileage out of her, but have a time line in place to dump and run.I know deep down
Its a bit more complicated, she lives in morocco and i met her on vacation. Read my thread its quite interesting. The thing is that she is my type and the cex was amazing. I smashed about 25 women from january to today including vacation and it was all fvcking coming and next. With this one we got on a emotional deep Connection in bed that resulted in her cviming 20 times squirting and a 1 meter square wet spot on my bed. It got us to vibe real good and her asking me to come to Holland for a while. She is very damaged. Didnt see her father for 19 years (shes 21), she got abandoned by her family and she told me she occured Some problemen too and she hates her stephfather. All to all she is exactley the example of this post and TheGambinho was considering on saving this girl to his OWN needs. I need to run.Give yourself a time line to exit.. Smash her, get as much sex mileage out of her, but have a time line in place to dump and run.
Remember.. You can’t turn a hoe into a house wife!
Even if the man is mentally strong, why reward the girl? I know some say sex doesn't validate women, but I disagree.Often we kid ousrselves into believing, that it is okay to bang a damaged woman..
Fair point.. Even mentaly strong Alphas can be bought down by these sloots..Even if the man is mentally strong, why reward the girl? I know some say sex doesn't validate women, but I disagree.
If a girl gets banged by an alpha Chad male 9, you know how it goes. She's going to think she deserves a 9, and can get one. If that's not validation, I don't know what is.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
because we don't want to accidentally Raise other men's kids, it's Male Parental Investment. If you are an intelligent modern western Man (you know, progress), then you want to go FULL-FORCE into investing into your woman. If there are no women whom you can DECIDE to go balls in on and throw all our resources into, then what are you left with? if you want to raise and stay with by their side, Strong children (your progeny for future generations)? What are you left with, if you can't FIND any female that doesn't open herself up to other men on down the line due to cellphone, due to so many available avenues at her disposal to communicate behind your back to other men with good genes or much resources? What's to stop them? the "family" courts? your fist? violence? there is no barrier for her and it will be YOUR fault when she cheats on you in her mind. If none of these used-to-be monogamous females can be found, then what can a high-value intelligent (where-to-put-his-investment(s)) male do? after the drought. There is a massive divide or drought for men who can't be Allowed to carry out their intelligence (which is to pour all their strength and investments accumulated into One woman and/or one family: their children they make with d!ck and pvssy).Men do not respect women that are serial daters, attention wh0res, slvts, etc.
The initial lay happens because she's given the benefit of the doubt or red flags haven't been noticed.Even if the man is mentally strong, why reward the girl? I know some say sex doesn't validate women, but I disagree.
If a girl gets banged by an alpha Chad male 9, you know how it goes. She's going to think she deserves a 9, and can get one. If that's not validation, I don't know what is.
This is a good post man.. I think it is crucial for a man to experience an interaction with one of these damaged woman.The initial lay happens because she's given the benefit of the doubt or red flags haven't been noticed.
If he's a 9 all around then he'll dismiss her if she missteps. If she's crazy toxic that'll be pretty quick. It won't be hard, it'll be a natural aversion. It's only when a man starts to doubt his convictions that a woman can diminish him. If good sex is all it takes to cause a man to question himself then he's not a 9 all around.
Luckily the toxic hot lays are just the thing to teach a man to stay true to himself. The unwanted behavior will either break him, or he'll break free. Through these trials a man inadvertently teaches himself to self love and self regulate, if only he's willing to get out of his own way. He discovers what he truly loves.
When dismissed in an inspirational way the woman will choose to either stay and grow or leave and stagnate. But any missteps and she must be dismissed again. This is how a man molds a woman to his side. She's given structure and security and rewards his leadership with her joy.
An all around 9 or 10 never bends for her, even if she's exceeding all his expectations. He only inspires her to be great by being great himself. Never letting something slide is how he never resents her. He is strict but loving because that is how he is with himself. This is how a man can remain unaffected if she comes or goes. He and he alone owns himself. It makes no difference if he spends the rest of his life without a woman, he will be happy, fulfilled, and abundant regardless.
Reminds me of thisWhen you see a woman spittin out kids from several different men, then you know she's BEING like a chimpanzee (thus degenerating back in time) where the fathers never know the children which is which, not a Gorilla or a Gibbon but a Chimp. So where is your woman on the Chimp to Gibbon scale of promiscuity?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is why spinning plates is always the best option. When she springs her true self on you months down the road, and you have options, then you just let that plate fall and walk away.The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
Been there. I got a friend request from a girl i asked out in high school. Yes that long ago. She looked down her nose at me in school and thought she was too good for me then, now fast forward 25 years later she was divorced 5 kids later and put on so much weight ( she had to tell me her maiden name from school,) i had no idea who she was. She hits me up on face book and said how she should have given me a chance and wanted to know if i wanted to start something.Your post reminds me of this
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What would you class as true colours though.. For me its, if I know I can't trust the sloot. Or she has too many other males around her, or drugs use.This is why spinning plates is always the best option. When she springs her true self on you months down the road, and you have options, then you just let that plate fall and walk away.
I have a similar story.. Many years ago, I broke with an ex.. She was hot.. Blond, big boobs etc..Been there. I got a friend request from a girl i asked out in high school. Yes that long ago. She looked down her nose at me in school and thought she was too good for me then, now fast forward 25 years later she was divorced 5 kids later and put on so much weight ( she had to tell me her maiden name from school,) i had no idea who she was. She hits me up on face book and said how she should have given me a chance and wanted to know if i wanted to start something.
No! Block.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.