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At fuking..

Other than fukin, you should avoid these women like the plague.. Recently had an encounter with one of these sloots.

Trust me you do not want to invest much time with these broken woman.

If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!

These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience.. you absolutely cannot do anything to fix these women..

They will cheat on you and manipulate you.

Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run!!!


 

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If she was sexualy abused as a child
These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience..
Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run
Exactly right, but it’s their porn level hyper sexuality that hooks most men. The man equates her sexual behavior to be love or attraction, but it’s Not. Been there done that, but prefer quality women now.
 

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The hyper sexuality is great, and if you're always willing to walk if she missteps there's always the chance she'll stab you in your sleep or something. So use a rubber, don't let her find out where you live, keep sharp objects away from her
You’re right about that. But there’s no emotional depth. Even when they tell you they really like you, it doesn’t have any weight to it. A woman’s validation can only have value if she withholds it from the majority of mediocre men and only give it to the rare great men. If she gives it away to everyone then my default mode is pump and dump.

There’s nothing I can do about it. It’s hardwired into my dna to be disgusted by low value slvts. My core tells me dealing with these women gives me a low probability of passing on my genes.

This is why it baffles my mind why women would ever play jealousy games. As soon as I see her give attention to another guy as a game, My respect for her goes from whatever it was to Zero, and it’s pump and dump mode.

Anything less than quality behavior and it’s pump and dump mode. The majority of women are too stupid to realize this . They say stupid stuff like “oh, I don’t sleep with guys on the first date”, basically telegraphing she’s a professional dater, and they wonder why the last 15 guys pump and dumped them.

Men do not respect women that are serial daters, attention wh0res, slvts, etc.

These women think they are winning but all the validation they get is fake and empty. It’s not until they hit the wall that they were just seen as sexy objects all along.
The really crazy ones will give you a good pump and act like angels to keep you coming back until you've wasted so much time pumping her that you're slightly comfortable/diminished. Then she goes to work taking an inch at a time. And if you dump her over an inch she'll try all sorts of manipulative tactics to get you back. To a centered man this is still all a fun challenge. The challenge being making her think she's taking inches when she really isn't. As guru puts it, beta throws. Time management challenges, mental/emotional/physical challenges, all sorts of things a man can use to hone himself.

It's a dangerous game, but like the saying goes ships are safest in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.
 

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The hyper sexuality is great, and if you're always willing to walk if she missteps there's always the chance she'll stab you in your sleep or something. So use a rubber, don't let her find out where you live, keep sharp objects away from her

The really crazy ones will give you a good pump and act like angels to keep you coming back until you've wasted so much time pumping her that you're slightly comfortable/diminished. Then she goes to work taking an inch at a time. And if you dump her over an inch she'll try all sorts of manipulative tactics to get you back. To a centered man this is still all a fun challenge. The challenge being making her think she's taking inches when she really isn't. As guru puts it, beta throws. Time management challenges, mental/emotional/physical challenges, all sorts of things a man can use to hone himself.

It's a dangerous game, but like the saying goes ships are safest in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.
Giving away fake inches. I love it.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
 

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Exactly right, but it’s their porn level hyper sexuality that hooks most men. The man equates her sexual behavior to be love or attraction, but it’s Not. Been there done that, but prefer quality women now.
Its always the porn level sex that traps the man... And these men eventually pay a heavy price for falling into the trap.

It simply boils down to RECOGNISING a damaged. Broken sloot when you meet one.

If you look for the signs, and realise who and what she is.. Then nothing wrong with some casual sex with her... But do NOT get attatched with one of these types.

Always have an exit date planned in your mind.. I would say maximum, smash the damaged chick for a month, maybe six week.. Then dump and head for the hills.

If you stay any longer, your at risk of catching FEELS, or getting love bombed and manipulated into a relationship.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.

Exactly.. This last sloot i was seeing.. It took her atleast 3 months to slowly reveal her true colours.

Only till month four, did the penny drop, and I realised that she was a full blown hoe/skank.
 
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Exactly.. This last sloot i was seeing.. It took her atleast 3 months to slowly reveal her true colours.

Only till month four, did the penny drop, and I realise that she was a full blow hoe/spank.
Yes, same here, about 3 months in she reveals being sexually molested by her stepfather as a teen.…
A damaged woman's sexual activity and proclivities is about the Only time you can’t judge by a woman's actions or words concerning you…
 

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Yes, same here, about 3 months in she reveals being sexually molested by her stepfather as a teen.…
A damaged woman's sexual activity and proclivities is the Only time you can’t judge by a woman's actions over her words concerning you…
The other problem is, us guys confuse sex/slvty sex with love or feelings.

Looking back now, two months later.. I didn't feel shyte for her.. Other than wanting to smash that sweet puzzy, and emptying my load in her, she didn't mean shyte to me.

I feel bad for a woman who has been sexualy abused as a child.. I really do..

However I aint her therapist.. I cant fix that hoe.. My instinct in the future, will be to run from these crazy hoes.. After I have ejaculated offcourse!
 

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There is no such thing as alpha and beta. A dominant and masculine man doesn't even see these things from women. Women are scared to lose his validation. Romance is a back drop to his life. His life is focused on changing his environment, not petty romance. When I am with women, I expect being fed with grapes. It's my recess time. If I suspect a headcase, I just replace her.

From age 14 to 35, I have no experience thinking fvcked up women are a challenge that I want to take on. I am naturally inclined to seek empowerment. And therefore, only keep women that empower me. But most importantly, women are secondary to my purpose.

I have better things to do then play these petty games with low quality women, lol.

You male seducers are pathetic, no offense.

If I have 5 quality women, I disqualify on the smallest offenses. It's the law of abundance. It's clear you have no concept of this. The more you have, the more you can afford to have high standards.
A beta throw is a fake weak behavior. I'm not sure what you think it is. I know what you mean, this fun can eventually mold a man into somewhat of a cheap manipulator himself, which is not his end goal. But that's yet another challenge. Most of the time the correct response is to walk and dismiss, but I find it interesting to think of other more positive alternatives. For example it's possible to inspire a woman and completely turn her around with no effort, simply by being great. Then the focus is not to manipulate or seduce, but to simply inspire through greatness.

I'm on a monk trip and have never identified as a seducer or tried to be one. Just like in some other convos of ours you assume incorrectly.

And all women test you, just to different degrees. Even the grape feeding angels. Maybe you're more risk averse and only go for safe bets, easy plays. I'm more risk prone, I enjoy a challenge even if it breaks me.
 
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The problem with these women especially in the #metoo era whereby women got incentives for false accusations. They can project past trauma onto a man once she doesn't get what she wants. If you breakup or start seeing others, you don't need any state transference, thst being her projecting her past and ****ty lifestyle choices onto you. You play with fire with women who are not oriented right. You will get burned. A false accusations are not a good time. There's better options to pursue. I have crushed crazy and its not so much worth the effort or time.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
They hide their ugly side till they feel comfortable enough to take the mask off then it’s oh fvck she’s nuts.
 

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There is no such thing as alpha and beta. A dominant and masculine man doesn't even see these things from women. Women are scared to lose his validation. Romance is a back drop to his life. His life is focused on changing his environment, not petty romance. When I am with women, I expect being fed with grapes. It's my recess time. If I suspect a headcase, I just replace her.

From age 14 to 35, I have no experience thinking fvcked up women are a challenge that I want to take on. I am naturally inclined to seek empowerment. And therefore, only keep women that empower me. But most importantly, women are secondary to my purpose.

I have better things to do then play these petty games with low quality women, lol.

You male seducers are pathetic, no offense.

If I have 5 quality women, I disqualify on the smallest offenses. It's the law of abundance. It's clear you have no concept of this. The more you have, the more you can afford to have high standards.
I agree with everything you say, but there is an art, a thrill of the hunt, in seducing a hottie. It literally is a lost art, nobody knows what the fvck romance is, nobody knows how to create space so she can fill in the void ...

anyways good post... but I stand by seduction.
 

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When will these threads about crazy women stop...

Males are born predators, learn to dismiss those weaker and spar with those that's stronger.

Women aren't strong in any sense unless a male hands over his own balls.
 

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I disagree with this. If you were a leader of a social circle that has hot women in it, they will naturally compete for your attention. You will automatically create space because you don’t want to be smothered.

The king shows up. And the women fill in the void. All he does is qualify and disqualify. Molds women’s behavior to his liking. They all supplicate to him because they don’t want to be ostracized from the tribe. He has absolute authority.

Because of his power and abundance, he no longer has any interest in petty romance. It is literally impossible to be the leader of the tribe and still feel like you need or even want to seduce women. The only feeling that exists is cashing in on the spoils of victory.

Women are actually the spoils of victory. They are not some kind goal or target. They are a byproduct of successfully becoming a leader of a social tribe/environment that has women in it.

That’s why it’s often said women are secondary. Taking over your environment is primary. It is your nature. It’s in your DNA to dominate.

Does it all make sense now? Am I speaking directly to your DNA?

The reason why 99% of guys on this forum do not know this is because they have never taken over a social environment that has hot women in it.

They don’t know the natural order of things. They don’t know that men are the conquerors and women are the seducers.

You stand by seduction because you failed to dominate an environment that has women in it. If you did that, the women would seduce you. Not the other way around.

You think nature made a mistake? You think men don’t have what it takes to naturally attract women and polarize them?

We were all born with it. It’s just that 99% of guys think their potential is a Great deal lesser than what it really is.

You were born to dominate and become kings. Not figure out the whims of women.

The king basks in validation and sexual tension that’s built in given his position as tribal leader. He doesn’t seduce. He doesn’t have to.

I’m talking about Being. You guys are talking about Doing the right things. One is infinitely more powerful than the other. One is a natural and the other has to learn calibration. But in the end, he is still merely a button pusher.

Doingness must come from Beingness, otherwise it has no real power.

The single absolute Being is where the power is at. One day more people will understand this.

If you do nothing else but walk around with the frame of a “wise King” who’s purpose is the betterment of others around him, your whole life would change.

Walking down the street, people would get out of your way as if you were parting the Red Sea. Random women would supplicate to you. High status people would talk to you as if you are their equal.

Walk around with this frame long enough and it would be completely embedded into your entire being. And you would no longer know what seduction is.

All of your actions will come from a powerful place of beingness.

What I am talking about, few will grok. But for those who see the pearl of wisdom, take it and never look back.
All of this can be filed under seduction. Just one more method. But this has been argued to death around here.
 

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At fuking..

Other than fukin, you should avoid these women like the plague.. Recently had an encounter with one of these sloots.

Trust me you do not want to invest much time with these broken woman.

If she tells you she was sexualy abused as a child.. ejaculate & evacuate!

These type of woman end up hyper sexual due to the traumatic childhood experience.. you absolutely cannot do anything to fix these women..

They will cheat on you and manipulate you.

Anytime a woman tells you she was sexualy abused... Fukin run!!!


Cluster B at their best, my ex wife still on rebound rs with lots of different guy and orbiter none of them has any clues when she chewed and spit them and being traumatised wondering wtf has just happened.. Shes a pure bpd, still wouldn't let me go so easily after 3 years apart of our divorced.
 

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You’re right about that. But there’s no emotional depth. Even when they tell you they really like you, it doesn’t have any weight to it. A woman’s validation can only have value if she withholds it from the majority of mediocre men and only give it to the rare great men. If she gives it away to everyone then my default mode is pump and dump.

There’s nothing I can do about it. It’s hardwired into my dna to be disgusted by low value slvts. My core tells me dealing with these women gives me a low probability of passing on my genes.

This is why it baffles my mind why women would ever play jealousy games. As soon as I see her give attention to another guy as a game, My respect for her goes from whatever it was to Zero, and it’s pump and dump mode.

Anything less than quality behavior and it’s pump and dump mode. The majority of women are too stupid to realize this . They say stupid stuff like “oh, I don’t sleep with guys on the first date”, basically telegraphing she’s a professional dater, and they wonder why the last 15 guys pump and dumped them.

Men do not respect women that are serial daters, attention wh0res, slvts, etc.

These women think they are winning but all the validation they get is fake and empty. It’s not until they hit the wall that they realize they were just seen as sex objects all along.

Women - if your validation is worthless, then there is no game that will save you from pump and dump. It’s inevitable.
Full of mindblowing insight you have mate, I almost think that we are twins.
 

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The thing about these types of women is that you don’t know they’re damaged and broken until you’ve already invested in them some. You aren’t the first man they’ve hooked and they know how to hook you, you think spilling the beans about their past right away is how they set their hooks in these men? Hell no! They don’t spring that deep stuff on you until MONTHS down the road.
You can spot them right away, the intensity of the relationship will goes 0-100mph in 5 seconds, you'll notice their lack of empathy, hollow looking eyes, they are crippled to responds to what others needs on empathy basis, acting like a 12 yo girl at most. Lack of real closeness and emotional bonding.

Their male target usually doesn't really give a **** about this thing mention above. They just need to feed, many called them an emotional vampires, you'll be suck and dry being left with a shell of your former self.
 

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It's good to keep in mind that you are not what the woman is after. The woman is after seductive/romantic emotions and experience. She is seeking a man that's acts as a channel and facilitates these emotions. You are a spring of love, it's flattering. If your spring dries up she will seek another. So do what you must to keep your spring flowing clear water that washes away any dirt she throws at it. cleanse, romance, and inspire her effortlessly. If she disrespects the spring you can always cut her off and find someone that does respect it.
 
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