Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dam, I gotta start approaching

Crazy Asian

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My summer is busy as fvck.
good thing i already got my ACT sh1t over with. Bible Belt- I did get a 30 :p

I'm rusty as hell right now
I've never really taken time out of my life to just cold approach, but I did talk to almost every girl i met.

Right now, i get flustered just making basic convo with a girl.
how could i suck so much just after a month?

i dunno.

But my parents are gonna be gone for the next 2 weeks.
I'll try to go out to approach 1 day out of mon-thurs
and 2 days out of the fri-sun.

I'd do more, but 5 hours of swimming + 3 hours of violin a day is a b1tch.
not to mention the SAT sh1t i have to do.

What i'm aiming to do is get so i act naturally around hot girls.
also, to set up a couple dates in the future.

edit: also, u think i'm too young to start approaching?
cause girls my age are usually... ya know.... immature.
like they aren't really used to being approached.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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Don't worry about the age, what do you have to lose? Just don't take up too much of your time. Approach when you'd anyway be going out.

Hey I got a 30 too :D
 

Crazy Asian

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to get comfortable really fast, i was thinking of printing out a list of the cheesiest pick up lines ever, and reading them off one by one to girls.

it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
 
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