"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dam, I gotta start approaching

Crazy Asian

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My summer is busy as fvck.
good thing i already got my ACT sh1t over with. Bible Belt- I did get a 30 :p

I'm rusty as hell right now
I've never really taken time out of my life to just cold approach, but I did talk to almost every girl i met.

Right now, i get flustered just making basic convo with a girl.
how could i suck so much just after a month?

i dunno.

But my parents are gonna be gone for the next 2 weeks.
I'll try to go out to approach 1 day out of mon-thurs
and 2 days out of the fri-sun.

I'd do more, but 5 hours of swimming + 3 hours of violin a day is a b1tch.
not to mention the SAT sh1t i have to do.

What i'm aiming to do is get so i act naturally around hot girls.
also, to set up a couple dates in the future.

edit: also, u think i'm too young to start approaching?
cause girls my age are usually... ya know.... immature.
like they aren't really used to being approached.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ARrocket

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Don't worry about the age, what do you have to lose? Just don't take up too much of your time. Approach when you'd anyway be going out.

Hey I got a 30 too :D
 

Crazy Asian

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to get comfortable really fast, i was thinking of printing out a list of the cheesiest pick up lines ever, and reading them off one by one to girls.

it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
 
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