"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dam, I gotta start approaching

Crazy Asian

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My summer is busy as fvck.
good thing i already got my ACT sh1t over with. Bible Belt- I did get a 30 :p

I'm rusty as hell right now
I've never really taken time out of my life to just cold approach, but I did talk to almost every girl i met.

Right now, i get flustered just making basic convo with a girl.
how could i suck so much just after a month?

i dunno.

But my parents are gonna be gone for the next 2 weeks.
I'll try to go out to approach 1 day out of mon-thurs
and 2 days out of the fri-sun.

I'd do more, but 5 hours of swimming + 3 hours of violin a day is a b1tch.
not to mention the SAT sh1t i have to do.

What i'm aiming to do is get so i act naturally around hot girls.
also, to set up a couple dates in the future.

edit: also, u think i'm too young to start approaching?
cause girls my age are usually... ya know.... immature.
like they aren't really used to being approached.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ARrocket

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Don't worry about the age, what do you have to lose? Just don't take up too much of your time. Approach when you'd anyway be going out.

Hey I got a 30 too :D
 

Crazy Asian

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to get comfortable really fast, i was thinking of printing out a list of the cheesiest pick up lines ever, and reading them off one by one to girls.

it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
 
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