"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dam, I gotta start approaching

Crazy Asian

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My summer is busy as fvck.
good thing i already got my ACT sh1t over with. Bible Belt- I did get a 30 :p

I'm rusty as hell right now
I've never really taken time out of my life to just cold approach, but I did talk to almost every girl i met.

Right now, i get flustered just making basic convo with a girl.
how could i suck so much just after a month?

i dunno.

But my parents are gonna be gone for the next 2 weeks.
I'll try to go out to approach 1 day out of mon-thurs
and 2 days out of the fri-sun.

I'd do more, but 5 hours of swimming + 3 hours of violin a day is a b1tch.
not to mention the SAT sh1t i have to do.

What i'm aiming to do is get so i act naturally around hot girls.
also, to set up a couple dates in the future.

edit: also, u think i'm too young to start approaching?
cause girls my age are usually... ya know.... immature.
like they aren't really used to being approached.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ARrocket

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Don't worry about the age, what do you have to lose? Just don't take up too much of your time. Approach when you'd anyway be going out.

Hey I got a 30 too :D
 

Crazy Asian

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to get comfortable really fast, i was thinking of printing out a list of the cheesiest pick up lines ever, and reading them off one by one to girls.

it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
 
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