"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm thinking about hiring a hypnotist to make a hypnosis cd to help me with easing the fear of approaching women.

I have a decent list of affirmations I'm going to put in it, but I'm wondering what others would put in it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you dont need a professional.

I am Master Practitioner on NLP. I can help you.

Would you post your email so I can work on something for you?
 

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no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass pardon my french im drunk..peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass pardon my french im drunk..peace
Theres an easy way to find out. Just listen to the recording in a conscious state and listen for anything weird. Simple as that.

post it for all of us , this will help many
I might. I need to find out if I can legally since many of the statements I'm putting in it are from affirmations I got from mystery and ross jeffries.





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You can listen to subliminal hypnosis in a concious state its designed to go straight into your subconcious, its recorded above the thershold ( speeling?) from what you concious mind can understand.
 

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Hynosis don't do ****. The concept itself is bull****. I saw this one show that interviewed a lady who runs a successful business selling hynosis tape and she admitted that it's bull****. It's a placebo.

I guess it does somewhat work if you really beleive in it though. It's all in your mind:rolleyes: .
 

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David,

Bit of false logic there David. There are scam merchants in most industries, that doesn't invalidate hypnosis by itself.

There is research that shows that listening whilst you sleep and the so called sublimal tapes don't register at all in the brain. :(

However the ones where two seperate channels are played together through each ear do register, but not consciously. There are much more elegant ways anyway to bypass the conscious mind.

As to hypnosis working generally (and NLP is much more than just that) it has about the same outcome rate as any other therapy.

The therapist seems to be more of an indicator of success than the therapy, couple with the individuals motivation to change.

Purely from a business/marketing point of view, I'm sure there would be demand for a product like that.

The more I think about it though, the more I feel workshops are what will really help people succeed who are struggling.
 
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why not make it yourself so that it's in your own voice. I've made tapes like that for years. it's a good thing to do!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I tried that, back when I was 13... purchased a 60 second looped tape from Radio Shack and went at it. No noticeable results came of it, though.
 

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Originally posted by Metaphysikal_Lover
why not make it yourself so that it's in your own voice. I've made tapes like that for years. it's a good thing to do!
I read someone on asf who did that with affermations. Sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure I would like listening to my own voice...


Originally posted by Snatchmaster
How about some instruction on how to make such a tape, or mp3?
I dont think hypnosis is something you can learn quickly. There are books on amazon though if you wanted to do it yourself.



Originally posted by Alpine
The more I think about it though, the more I feel workshops are what will really help people succeed who are struggling.
I dont know. I've read on asf where a lot of people have paid $2000 to go to cali and work directly with mystery and they arent much different when they get home.

Personally, I can sarge when I'm with a wing. I just have problems when doing it alone. I know its because the 90% of my brain that is not conscious is playing images, movies, and thoughts of what other people are thinking of me, what could go wrong, etc. Thats what I'm trying to change here. I want my off-line brain to encourage me so I go for it without having to fight fear.
 

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no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass
Yeah I'm sure he'll make you send money to him through paypal... What could he possibly be brainwashing bro? :confused:
 

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There's a book pretty much dedicated to this subject and tells you how to phrase affirmations and make tapes.

It's called "What to so when you talk yo yourself" and is by a guy called Shad Helmestad/stien or something.

In addition to this I would recommend turning the standard affirmation into a question. This achieves a number of things.

Firstly it helps prevent the conscious mind from saying 'That's not true!'

It also leads your creative unconscious to get going on a solution rather than dwell on a problem.

Here's an example.

Your typical self talk might be 'It's no good, I'm useless at this DJ stuff, it'll never work for me.'

A typical affirmation to repeat or record would be.

I'm a successful DJ, I am highly attractive to women.

These are positive statements based in the present. They are phrased so that a picture is formed in the mind. So don't say something like, 'I am no longer a loser' as the brain just registers LOSER.


By taking these affirmations and using a question, you will get better results.

How come I am such a successful DJ?

Why do women find me so attractive?

When did I realise girl just love me?

Get the picture?

It's not a miracle cure, but it sure is another tool in the box.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Alpine
There's a book pretty much dedicated to this subject and tells you how to phrase affirmations and make tapes.

It's called "What to so when you talk yo yourself" and is by a guy called Shad Helmestad/stien or something.
I had someone else recommend that book. I need to check it out.
 

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Author Shad Helmtetter

ISBN 0-7225-2511-7

Published by Thorsons

May help track down a copy
 
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well

Im gonna write down a little text, ask an english friend to translate it properly and post it here, then you can read it a few times, if you prefer record it or ask your friend to record it on a low tune voice.

Listen to it, it works if you desire it to works.
 

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Another idea you might want to use to enhance the effect is to play in the background 4/4 time music (I think) something like Boroque style.

This is supposed to induce the brain to produce alpha waves.

Don't forget though you might have copyright issues if you use a recording.
 
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