Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Theres an easy way to find out. Just listen to the recording in a conscious state and listen for anything weird. Simple as that.no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass pardon my french im drunk..peace
I might. I need to find out if I can legally since many of the statements I'm putting in it are from affirmations I got from mystery and ross jeffries.post it for all of us , this will help many
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I read someone on asf who did that with affermations. Sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure I would like listening to my own voice...Originally posted by Metaphysikal_Lover
why not make it yourself so that it's in your own voice. I've made tapes like that for years. it's a good thing to do!
I dont think hypnosis is something you can learn quickly. There are books on amazon though if you wanted to do it yourself.Originally posted by Snatchmaster
How about some instruction on how to make such a tape, or mp3?
I dont know. I've read on asf where a lot of people have paid $2000 to go to cali and work directly with mystery and they arent much different when they get home.Originally posted by Alpine
The more I think about it though, the more I feel workshops are what will really help people succeed who are struggling.
Yeah I'm sure he'll make you send money to him through paypal... What could he possibly be brainwashing bro?no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I had someone else recommend that book. I need to check it out.Originally posted by Alpine
There's a book pretty much dedicated to this subject and tells you how to phrase affirmations and make tapes.
It's called "What to so when you talk yo yourself" and is by a guy called Shad Helmestad/stien or something.