Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Custom Hypnosis CD for DJs
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
I am Master Practitioner on NLP. I can help you.
Would you post your email so I can work on something for you?
Pugsley_f5
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Theres an easy way to find out. Just listen to the recording in a conscious state and listen for anything weird. Simple as that.
I might. I need to find out if I can legally since many of the statements I'm putting in it are from affirmations I got from mystery and ross jeffries.
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I guess it does somewhat work if you really beleive in it though. It's all in your mind
.Alpine
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Bit of false logic there David. There are scam merchants in most industries, that doesn't invalidate hypnosis by itself.
There is research that shows that listening whilst you sleep and the so called sublimal tapes don't register at all in the brain.
However the ones where two seperate channels are played together through each ear do register, but not consciously. There are much more elegant ways anyway to bypass the conscious mind.
As to hypnosis working generally (and NLP is much more than just that) it has about the same outcome rate as any other therapy.
The therapist seems to be more of an indicator of success than the therapy, couple with the individuals motivation to change.
Purely from a business/marketing point of view, I'm sure there would be demand for a product like that.
The more I think about it though, the more I feel workshops are what will really help people succeed who are struggling.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
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Snatchmaster
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Anyone have a script? Or music/sound recommendations?
I read someone on asf who did that with affermations. Sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure I would like listening to my own voice...
I dont think hypnosis is something you can learn quickly. There are books on amazon though if you wanted to do it yourself.
I dont know. I've read on asf where a lot of people have paid $2000 to go to cali and work directly with mystery and they arent much different when they get home.
Personally, I can sarge when I'm with a wing. I just have problems when doing it alone. I know its because the 90% of my brain that is not conscious is playing images, movies, and thoughts of what other people are thinking of me, what could go wrong, etc. Thats what I'm trying to change here. I want my off-line brain to encourage me so I go for it without having to fight fear.
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Yeah I'm sure he'll make you send money to him through paypal... What could he possibly be brainwashing bro?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
It's called "What to so when you talk yo yourself" and is by a guy called Shad Helmestad/stien or something.
In addition to this I would recommend turning the standard affirmation into a question. This achieves a number of things.
Firstly it helps prevent the conscious mind from saying 'That's not true!'
It also leads your creative unconscious to get going on a solution rather than dwell on a problem.
Here's an example.
Your typical self talk might be 'It's no good, I'm useless at this DJ stuff, it'll never work for me.'
A typical affirmation to repeat or record would be.
I'm a successful DJ, I am highly attractive to women.
These are positive statements based in the present. They are phrased so that a picture is formed in the mind. So don't say something like, 'I am no longer a loser' as the brain just registers LOSER.
By taking these affirmations and using a question, you will get better results.
How come I am such a successful DJ?
Why do women find me so attractive?
When did I realise girl just love me?
Get the picture?
It's not a miracle cure, but it sure is another tool in the box.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alpine
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ISBN 0-7225-2511-7
Published by Thorsons
May help track down a copy
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
Im gonna write down a little text, ask an english friend to translate it properly and post it here, then you can read it a few times, if you prefer record it or ask your friend to record it on a low tune voice.
Listen to it, it works if you desire it to works.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
This is supposed to induce the brain to produce alpha waves.
Don't forget though you might have copyright issues if you use a recording.