She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Theres an easy way to find out. Just listen to the recording in a conscious state and listen for anything weird. Simple as that.no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass pardon my french im drunk..peace
I might. I need to find out if I can legally since many of the statements I'm putting in it are from affirmations I got from mystery and ross jeffries.post it for all of us , this will help many
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I read someone on asf who did that with affermations. Sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure I would like listening to my own voice...Originally posted by Metaphysikal_Lover
why not make it yourself so that it's in your own voice. I've made tapes like that for years. it's a good thing to do!
I dont think hypnosis is something you can learn quickly. There are books on amazon though if you wanted to do it yourself.Originally posted by Snatchmaster
How about some instruction on how to make such a tape, or mp3?
I dont know. I've read on asf where a lot of people have paid $2000 to go to cali and work directly with mystery and they arent much different when they get home.Originally posted by Alpine
The more I think about it though, the more I feel workshops are what will really help people succeed who are struggling.
Yeah I'm sure he'll make you send money to him through paypal... What could he possibly be brainwashing bro?no disrespect master nlp man, but i would not accept that **** over the net he could be brainwashing you to screwing your own ass
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I had someone else recommend that book. I need to check it out.Originally posted by Alpine
There's a book pretty much dedicated to this subject and tells you how to phrase affirmations and make tapes.
It's called "What to so when you talk yo yourself" and is by a guy called Shad Helmestad/stien or something.