"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Current girl upset about ex having still having photos up

Imdonswanson

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What do you do when your current GF gets pissed because your ex still has photos of you and her up from a long time ago?

I try to explain to my current girl that its no big deal girls just forget or don't bother but she doesn't want to hear it, I feel like telling her to gtfo it's not my problem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My ex still has an entire FB page up with pictures that is using my last name. After our annulment in 2012 she was court ordered to cease and desist from keeping/using my last name but the FB page still exists.

My current GF hasn't made too big of a fuss about it.

What I want to know is, why do exes do this?
 

Imdonswanson

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No clue dude,

My ex was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder but I'm sure this is a universal thing with all exes. I'm more of a delete/ you don't exist until I'm over you.

Why do exes do that? The most common one I hear from girls is "we're just too lazy to delete!" Or "it was a part of my past, I can't just delete it:crazy: " Despite the fact that, at least in my case, my ex painted me to be a horrible demon yet she has 100+ photos some are more intimate than others.

Maybe keep the memory alive? A reminder of the past? No clue.
 

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Imdonswanson said:
What do you do when your current GF gets pissed because your ex still has photos of you and her up from a long time ago?

I try to explain to my current girl that its no big deal girls just forget or don't bother but she doesn't want to hear it, I feel like telling her to gtfo it's not my problem.
Get a new girlfriend, she sounds really insecure over old pictures that you can't do anything about. Maybe you picked up another BPD again with her extreme jealously and insecurities. Screen them out a lot more before entering a relationship. You already had it happen to you once, you'd think you know better the second time around.
 

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Stop involving Facebook in your life. Problem solved.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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Say that's her problem not yours.
 

Imdonswanson

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Agreed. I'm thinking about dumping this girl. It's not my fault the photos are up and I have no intention on reaching out to my ex to take those down, seems petty.
 
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