"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you do when your current GF gets pissed because your ex still has photos of you and her up from a long time ago?

I try to explain to my current girl that its no big deal girls just forget or don't bother but she doesn't want to hear it, I feel like telling her to gtfo it's not my problem.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My ex still has an entire FB page up with pictures that is using my last name. After our annulment in 2012 she was court ordered to cease and desist from keeping/using my last name but the FB page still exists.

My current GF hasn't made too big of a fuss about it.

What I want to know is, why do exes do this?
 
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No clue dude,

My ex was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder but I'm sure this is a universal thing with all exes. I'm more of a delete/ you don't exist until I'm over you.

Why do exes do that? The most common one I hear from girls is "we're just too lazy to delete!" Or "it was a part of my past, I can't just delete it:crazy: " Despite the fact that, at least in my case, my ex painted me to be a horrible demon yet she has 100+ photos some are more intimate than others.

Maybe keep the memory alive? A reminder of the past? No clue.
 
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Imdonswanson said:
What do you do when your current GF gets pissed because your ex still has photos of you and her up from a long time ago?

I try to explain to my current girl that its no big deal girls just forget or don't bother but she doesn't want to hear it, I feel like telling her to gtfo it's not my problem.
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Get a new girlfriend, she sounds really insecure over old pictures that you can't do anything about. Maybe you picked up another BPD again with her extreme jealously and insecurities. Screen them out a lot more before entering a relationship. You already had it happen to you once, you'd think you know better the second time around.
 
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Stop involving Facebook in your life. Problem solved.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Say that's her problem not yours.
 
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Agreed. I'm thinking about dumping this girl. It's not my fault the photos are up and I have no intention on reaching out to my ex to take those down, seems petty.
 
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