"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Curious, anything out there that lessens your refractory period?

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Or time between sexual bouts (for those not familiar with the term).

When I was younger in my 20 somethings I'd be good to go again in 10-15 minutes. Now its like 20-35 minutes in between. Now thats not bad.. but I love ****ing and I'd like to be able to **** sooner. Any aminos or vitamins that help speed this up?

(I read the bit about larginine and Pycnogenol but I'm not sure that helps recovery time exactly.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks but yeah, not looking for prescription meds. I'm looking for the more 'natural' route.
 

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The only "technique" I know that seems to work is outlined and discussed here: (read the whole damn thing)

http://www.sex-project.com/multiplemale.shtml

Oxytocin is the main culprit, If I remember correctly, that causes refractory period. I'm not certain how you can go about controlling your oxytocin levels but let me say that you should NOT mess around with your hormonal levels if you don't know what you are doing.

The PC exercises they mention are also called Kegels which are super easy to do.
 

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Hey thanks The Bat! Great read. Funny how I've never ran into this before..

Anywho I tried using the techniques solo and have had luck both times having multiple orgasms as well as stopping ejaculation. I look forward to perfecting this and making it automatic during sex.. and so does my gf! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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