"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Curious, anything out there that lessens your refractory period?

JohnnyIrish

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Or time between sexual bouts (for those not familiar with the term).

When I was younger in my 20 somethings I'd be good to go again in 10-15 minutes. Now its like 20-35 minutes in between. Now thats not bad.. but I love ****ing and I'd like to be able to **** sooner. Any aminos or vitamins that help speed this up?

(I read the bit about larginine and Pycnogenol but I'm not sure that helps recovery time exactly.)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks but yeah, not looking for prescription meds. I'm looking for the more 'natural' route.
 

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The only "technique" I know that seems to work is outlined and discussed here: (read the whole damn thing)

http://www.sex-project.com/multiplemale.shtml

Oxytocin is the main culprit, If I remember correctly, that causes refractory period. I'm not certain how you can go about controlling your oxytocin levels but let me say that you should NOT mess around with your hormonal levels if you don't know what you are doing.

The PC exercises they mention are also called Kegels which are super easy to do.
 

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Hey thanks The Bat! Great read. Funny how I've never ran into this before..

Anywho I tried using the techniques solo and have had luck both times having multiple orgasms as well as stopping ejaculation. I look forward to perfecting this and making it automatic during sex.. and so does my gf! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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