"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Curious, anything out there that lessens your refractory period?

JohnnyIrish

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Or time between sexual bouts (for those not familiar with the term).

When I was younger in my 20 somethings I'd be good to go again in 10-15 minutes. Now its like 20-35 minutes in between. Now thats not bad.. but I love ****ing and I'd like to be able to **** sooner. Any aminos or vitamins that help speed this up?

(I read the bit about larginine and Pycnogenol but I'm not sure that helps recovery time exactly.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks but yeah, not looking for prescription meds. I'm looking for the more 'natural' route.
 

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The only "technique" I know that seems to work is outlined and discussed here: (read the whole damn thing)

http://www.sex-project.com/multiplemale.shtml

Oxytocin is the main culprit, If I remember correctly, that causes refractory period. I'm not certain how you can go about controlling your oxytocin levels but let me say that you should NOT mess around with your hormonal levels if you don't know what you are doing.

The PC exercises they mention are also called Kegels which are super easy to do.
 

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Hey thanks The Bat! Great read. Funny how I've never ran into this before..

Anywho I tried using the techniques solo and have had luck both times having multiple orgasms as well as stopping ejaculation. I look forward to perfecting this and making it automatic during sex.. and so does my gf! :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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