Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've never had one spit it out. I usually warn a girl when I'm about to cumm if it's her first time giving me head. Either she'll stop and use her hand to finish me off, or she'll keep going and swallow it.eko said:A girl was giving me head for the first time (between us, not the first time for either of us)... but I came in her mouth without any warning signals. she got up right after and spit it out and was like yuck... Is this bad?
Bad? That my friend, is beautiful. *tear*eko said:A girl was giving me head for the first time (between us, not the first time for either of us)... but I came in her mouth without any warning signals. she got up right after and spit it out and was like yuck... Is this bad?
good jobeko said:A girl was giving me head for the first time (between us, not the first time for either of us)... but I came in her mouth without any warning signals. she got up right after and spit it out and was like yuck... Is this bad?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spot onBible_Belt said:Swallowing is a big deal to me. It's my favorite way to cvm. I like it a lot.
My philosophy is that any girl who does not like swallowing does not like you enough. Find a girl who does.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ever licked *****? Nuff said.Phyzzle said:You're basically asking her to swallow mucus (snot).
It's like blowing your nose, except blowing your d!ck.