"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crossing the line of law

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What are your thoughts on dating minors? I know every state has different laws, but do you think it's worth it to risk yourself jailtime to date a girl who's almost 18?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Legal and right are different.

I refuse to do anything illegal in such cases, and I also refuse to date anyone really young and living at home. Actually now that I think about it I've not dated a girl who was currently living with her parents since it was the 1980's. The potential for unwanted complications seems too high.
 

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"Almost 18" is almost 2 years passed the legal age here in MA, but in other places you'll be considered a child rapist.

Yet another nonsensical part of society.

Take her to MA and fvck her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bukowski_merit

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not only do i consider it wrong

but, if you started a rel with this girl and fell for her - you'd have to go through HELL trying to keep and keep up with this girl as the girl matured in the 17-22 age range... there's so many phases you'll get hit with during that...

not worth it in the little way...

most 17 yo's are far from virgins too... so it's not like the sex will be any better than if you went with a 25 year old... in fact - smart money is on it being better with than older woman...
 

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bukowski_merit said:
..... - smart money is on it being better with than older woman...
Bzzzzzt. Wrong. In my experience this is just not true unless the guy is inexperienced and needs some Mrs. Robinson style help.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Bzzzzzt. Wrong. In my experience this is just not true unless the guy is inexperienced and needs some Mrs. Robinson style help.
nonsense... and i'm not talking about old like that... i'm talking - older than her teens...

most girls i mess with are in the 22-28 range... and i can tell you they are much more in touch with their abilities in bed (such as their ability to have an orgasm). if you sit down and talk to them about sex... many will say "i started having sex when i was around [somewhere in the 13-16 range]." and if you probe further most of them will tell you something like "i didn't really learn how to really enjoy myself and gain pleasure from sex until i was [somewhere in the 21-25 range]."

i get off on another womans pleasure... the last thing i wanna do is stick my d!ck in some immature girl who's going to "act out" how she thinks sex should be...
 

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bukowski_merit said:
i get off on another womans pleasure...
So you're a lesbian?


bukowski_merit said:
.... some immature girl who's going to "act out" how she thinks ....
The reason 18 yo girls have trouble enjoying it is that they are with 18 yo boys, it has nothing to do with them. If they just do as I ask they will have a great time.
 

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bigjohnson said:
So you're a lesbian?
Yes i'm a motha****in lesbian!


bigjohnson said:
The reason 18 yo girls have trouble enjoying it is that they are with 18 yo boys, it has nothing to do with them. If they just do as I ask they will have a great time.
I think most 18yo woman date and **** much older men... I still don't want to tell a girl what to do to get off and enjoy herself... she needs to know that going into it... i have a dominant sexual personality, but that doesn't mean i want to be a teacher...

this guy is also talking about relationships... not sex... and a (possibly illegal) 17 year old, not an 18 year old.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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