I have to agree with Des on this one. Overweight women with tattoos are 10 times less attractive to me than overweight women without tattoos. It's a huge turn off. It's like a guy with a big beer belly wearing a super-tight cold gear under armor shirt. It's just wrong.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cows and Tattoos
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jimjam
Senior Don Juan
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Years ago, I was hooked on drugs, alkie, loser. I have worked hard to remove myself from that stigma. I did 107 push ups the other day. I work HARD to keep myself in shape and to be the best that
I can be. And I do it for myself, not for what some c**ze or what whover else may think.
It pisses me off to no end when these women expect you to fall all over them just because they're a woman---no matter what they may look like. I can understand someone with a legitimate problem that causes wait gain. Okay. But most of these women are lazy and entitled. It's all one huge turnoff. They think they deserve the world. But as we all know, you only deserve what you own. Fvck anyone who caters to these people---man or woman.
I can be. And I do it for myself, not for what some c**ze or what whover else may think.
It pisses me off to no end when these women expect you to fall all over them just because they're a woman---no matter what they may look like. I can understand someone with a legitimate problem that causes wait gain. Okay. But most of these women are lazy and entitled. It's all one huge turnoff. They think they deserve the world. But as we all know, you only deserve what you own. Fvck anyone who caters to these people---man or woman.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Well, they've heard for years that men are just a non-thinking d!ck.... and those few who are, manage to reinforce that stereotype. IF she wasn't getting ANY d!ck, she'd maybe lose the weight.....
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Scientist have confirmed that Veggie eating Dinasaurs are responsible for Global warmingAtom Smasher said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
