"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Covid and girl issues

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So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hello
So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
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Yes, ask her out and find out if she's for real or if she just wants to waste your time by chatting online.
 
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So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
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Old school MM ftw.

Any times you question should you or shouldn't you, you always should. - your friend, Mystery.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Im smashing. Covid won't keep me down. No pun intended.

Let's be honest- its a virus. Are you going to be the first person in history to dodge a virus? Most people have probably had it and didn't know it.

Those who stop living their lives due to fear are already dead.

Smash these chicks.
 

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I agree with you Glassguy but all of pubs, restaurants are closed. And i have not asked any girl to go with me just for a walk in years :D
 

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I agree with you Glassguy but all of pubs, restaurants are closed. And i have not asked any girl to go with me just for a walk in years :D
Ask her out for a walk is excellent advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im smashing. Covid won't keep me down. No pun intended.

Let's be honest- its a virus. Are you going to be the first person in history to dodge a virus? Most people have probably had it and didn't know it.

Those who stop living their lives due to fear are already dead.

Smash these chicks.
Agreed. I have a few regulars since pre covid but anybody who is saying they've had no erosion in their funnel or any leakage is talking ****. The amount of skanks attention whoring on a layoff from underwater sock puppetry is at a record high. As in, higher than usual and recognised it during initial lockdowns. The result is comply or bye.

Women must have stupid high interest level or its as good as dead.
 

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Agreed. I have a few regulars since pre covid but anybody who is saying they've had no erosion in their funnel or any leakage is talking ****. The amount of skanks attention whoring on a layoff from underwater sock puppetry is at a record high. As in, higher than usual and recognised it during initial lockdowns. The result is comply or bye.

Women must have stupid high interest level or its as good as dead.
Agreed. I went from a 6 month relationship to single, now have 2 steady plates and a drinks date with a new prospect this evening. Picking her up at her house and the intent is to grab a couple drinks and smash.

The ONLY women that I have heard say they were afraid to go out due to covid were low interest. Women want the D from men they have high interest/attraction for and they arent going to stop themselves from getting it.

Keep in mind that I live in the midwest where we only wear a mask when required and we arent scared of shyte.

As to the point- The woman who uses the covid excuse (and that is all it is) should be dead to the man she says it to. Move on. That same woman is smashing someone, just not you.
 

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Agreed. I went from a 6 month relationship to single, now have 2 steady plates and a drinks date with a new prospect this evening. Picking her up at her house and the intent is to grab a couple drinks and smash.

The ONLY women that I have heard say they were afraid to go out due to covid were low interest. Women want the D from men they have high interest/attraction for and they arent going to stop themselves from getting it.

Keep in mind that I live in the midwest where we only wear a mask when required and we arent scared of shyte.

As to the point- The woman who uses the covid excuse (and that is all it is) should be dead to the man she says it to. Move on. That same woman is smashing someone, just not you.
I swear I was trying to crush every nationality throughout pandemic or not for a lack of effort. I heard Aaron and Elkin reveal a lot of guys being dragged along through covid. Mr. Elkin got dragged along. I think many guys have. Shout out @ the late Doc love and interest level (&&& jargon about psych majors). Interest is key. Compliance is a solid indicator. It could be end of days and mad max outdoors. If high interest, babes are getting naked.

Mid West lad. Should have wheeled Tommy Lauren before she became Karen lulz!
 
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