"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Covid and girl issues

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So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
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Yes, ask her out and find out if she's for real or if she just wants to waste your time by chatting online.
 
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So there is a girl who i used to work with but because of pandemic i lost that job. Recenty i added her on facebook and started casual conversation. Because of the pandemic everything is closed is it good idea to ask her out just to walk? Or should i wait untill lockdown is going to be finished? Any tips how should i talk to her to not get pushed into friendzone?
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Old school MM ftw.

Any times you question should you or shouldn't you, you always should. - your friend, Mystery.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im smashing. Covid won't keep me down. No pun intended.

Let's be honest- its a virus. Are you going to be the first person in history to dodge a virus? Most people have probably had it and didn't know it.

Those who stop living their lives due to fear are already dead.

Smash these chicks.
 

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I agree with you Glassguy but all of pubs, restaurants are closed. And i have not asked any girl to go with me just for a walk in years :D
 

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I agree with you Glassguy but all of pubs, restaurants are closed. And i have not asked any girl to go with me just for a walk in years :D
Ask her out for a walk is excellent advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im smashing. Covid won't keep me down. No pun intended.

Let's be honest- its a virus. Are you going to be the first person in history to dodge a virus? Most people have probably had it and didn't know it.

Those who stop living their lives due to fear are already dead.

Smash these chicks.
Agreed. I have a few regulars since pre covid but anybody who is saying they've had no erosion in their funnel or any leakage is talking ****. The amount of skanks attention whoring on a layoff from underwater sock puppetry is at a record high. As in, higher than usual and recognised it during initial lockdowns. The result is comply or bye.

Women must have stupid high interest level or its as good as dead.
 

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Agreed. I have a few regulars since pre covid but anybody who is saying they've had no erosion in their funnel or any leakage is talking ****. The amount of skanks attention whoring on a layoff from underwater sock puppetry is at a record high. As in, higher than usual and recognised it during initial lockdowns. The result is comply or bye.

Women must have stupid high interest level or its as good as dead.
Agreed. I went from a 6 month relationship to single, now have 2 steady plates and a drinks date with a new prospect this evening. Picking her up at her house and the intent is to grab a couple drinks and smash.

The ONLY women that I have heard say they were afraid to go out due to covid were low interest. Women want the D from men they have high interest/attraction for and they arent going to stop themselves from getting it.

Keep in mind that I live in the midwest where we only wear a mask when required and we arent scared of shyte.

As to the point- The woman who uses the covid excuse (and that is all it is) should be dead to the man she says it to. Move on. That same woman is smashing someone, just not you.
 

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Agreed. I went from a 6 month relationship to single, now have 2 steady plates and a drinks date with a new prospect this evening. Picking her up at her house and the intent is to grab a couple drinks and smash.

The ONLY women that I have heard say they were afraid to go out due to covid were low interest. Women want the D from men they have high interest/attraction for and they arent going to stop themselves from getting it.

Keep in mind that I live in the midwest where we only wear a mask when required and we arent scared of shyte.

As to the point- The woman who uses the covid excuse (and that is all it is) should be dead to the man she says it to. Move on. That same woman is smashing someone, just not you.
I swear I was trying to crush every nationality throughout pandemic or not for a lack of effort. I heard Aaron and Elkin reveal a lot of guys being dragged along through covid. Mr. Elkin got dragged along. I think many guys have. Shout out @ the late Doc love and interest level (&&& jargon about psych majors). Interest is key. Compliance is a solid indicator. It could be end of days and mad max outdoors. If high interest, babes are getting naked.

Mid West lad. Should have wheeled Tommy Lauren before she became Karen lulz!
 
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