“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Couple questions of mine.
- Thread starter MrConfidence
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your gonna have to turn off your brain as you do this sh!t and just try to get some friends.. this is one of those things that people can't or don't give enough of a sh!t to do anything for you.
Your gonna have to turn off your brain and simply just talk to people, people are gonna think your weird (you are) but steam past it man. Before you know it you'll have some friends. There is no clear answer, but it's still easy once you get it. Just don't think. Your not stupid, just you have no balls. lol.. through all this stuff your gonna have to go through you'll get some social skills and then later laugh at your post.
Something you come to realize is that people are just people, there is no socially flawless guy (the more some guy thinks he is, the less he probally is) out there, so relax and just talk.
I guess they care but voice tone is ultimately a small detail. More important things to worry about
Yeah you need friends. Even one or two good buddies may be all you need. Don't fool yourself and think it's cool to be a lonewolf. Figure out what you're into and hang out with people who are into it too. It's easy to talk when you both want to discuss the same thing.
Go to homecoming anyways. Even if it sucks at least you went. Maybe it'll be fun.
Sounds like you're just a bit rusty with people in general. Get better with them and women won't be as mysterious.
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How so? You know what I'm into MUSIC, COMPUTERS, VIDEO GAMES, and you know maybe there are people in my school who also like that stuff, but I have no way of knowing of that. I like to talk about stuff I KNOW. Hell even band people don't discuss music that much. There's only one guy that I know, who's really into music that I talk to from time to time(Guess you could consider us friends), and even we don't talk that much.Nighthawk said:Having no friends is weird.
Mr_rogers
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Being into music, computers and video games are all well and fine, but I still stand by my opinion that you need to expand your horizons. Computers and video games are practically the same thing anyway... and no, don't lecture me about the difference, as I used to be big into gaming.MrConfidence said:How so? You know what I'm into MUSIC, COMPUTERS, VIDEO GAMES, and you know maybe there are people in my school who also like that stuff, but I have no way of knowing of that. I like to talk about stuff I KNOW. Hell even band people don't discuss music that much. There's only one guy that I know, who's really into music that I talk to from time to time(Guess you could consider us friends), and even we don't talk that much.
Just to let you know, it really is weird to have no friends. I can't imagine that. I fail to see how anyone could have no friends unless they go around purposely pissing people off.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Nope, I just don't have any friends. And music IS a big part of my life dude, I play 4 instruments, I'm in marching band, and I'm pretty confident I have what it takes to make jazz band this year. I'm also in wrestling, and track. So how can I expand my horizons if I'm already doing the stuff I like to do? Music, computer-related things, and sports take up a lot of my time.Mr_rogers said:Being into music, computers and video games are all well and fine, but I still stand by my opinion that you need to expand your horizons. Computers and video games are practically the same thing anyway... and no, don't lecture me about the difference, as I used to be big into gaming.
Just to let you know, it really is weird to have no friends. I can't imagine that. I fail to see how anyone could have no friends unless they go around purposely pissing people off.
Mr_rogers
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Okay, I don't really understand what you meant by that first sentence, there. I can see your point about having little time with wrestling, and music, though I'm sure you have more than you make it sound.MrConfidence said:Nope, I just don't have any friends. And music IS a big part of my life dude, I play 4 instruments, I'm in marching band, and I'm pretty confident I have what it takes to make jazz band this year. I'm also in wrestling, and track. So how can I expand my horizons if I'm already doing the stuff I like to do? Music, computer-related things, and sports take up a lot of my time.