"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Could not going out for a year affect my social skills

Dhoulmagus

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My university sucks and its a way waste money and time to go out. My gpa isnt superb, so I need good social skills.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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School and social Life

Hey Do you know of any clubs you could be able to participate with?
One great way to meet people is to study with them in your class.
Have you ever considered starting a club in the subjects you have a hard time with in school?
 

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My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
 

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i told you to transfer to SDSU.

Either do it or GTFO.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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On the one hand you say...
Dhoulmagus said:
...I need good social skills.
and then you use excuses like...
Dhoulmagus said:
My class is full of greeks that know each other from elementary school.
What would a sociable person do you in your situation?

Socializing with people (regardless of who they are) leads to opportunities of meeting more people...
 

Good Gao

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Yes it can, because social skills need to be exercised in order for them to be at top form. Being isolated for that long will no doubt hurt your social skills.
 
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